I promise next week’s blog post will not make reference to a book. 

But I feel I must share the power and magic of Steven Pressfield’s, Turning Pro.

This is not a new book; it’s a classic business read.  And for me, it’s on regular rotation.  I’ll pick it up on random days and simply open the book and read several pages.  The lesson is always right on.  I go back to my work powered by the knowledge of this important book.         

It’s a slim volume (just 100 pages,) so it can be consumed in a sitting.  With that short investment of time, you’ll give yourself ammunition to fight Resistance. 

Pressfield defines Resistance (with a capital R) as fear, self-doubt, and self-sabotage.  So Resistance looks like cleaning out your inbox before writing your blog post.  Or shopping for a new lamp for your desk before making your sales calls.  I think you get the picture; it can get ugly. 

He also gives us a glimpse of a life lived as an amateur or a professional.  It’s all about what daily, dedicated commitment looks like.  He breaks it down in an easy way that actually makes you want to clean up your act and refashion your day.    

So take a turn with Turning Pro.  Which will probably make you want to read his first book, The War of Art.  It’s another important, super-slim volume. 

Both of these books are little, mini life-changers.  And I mean that, seriously.  

Habits

Like most people, I have both good and bad habits.  

I exercise every morning and eat too much sugar most evenings.  Daily, I spend four to five hours working either in or on my business but clock more hours than I’m willing to admit watching YouTube videos.  I read voraciously but just as enthusiastically I’ve binge watched my fair share of reality TV. 

Lately, I’ve felt compelled to clean up some of these time-sucking habits to make way for new stuff.  I’ve looked online for some tips for changing habits but my real insight has come from a fascinating book. 

I’ve read, The Power of Habit by Charles Duhigg before, but sometimes it takes a reread for me to start the change.  His insight into our habits is sharp, provocative, and useful. 

If you’ve ever wondered why you do what you do habitually, you might want to check out The Power of Habit.                    

  

Starbucks

Last weekend Solomon and I stopped at our neighborhood Starbucks before leaving Austin to spend a weekend in Dallas.    

At Starbucks, I ordered a coffee and a bacon and egg English muffin.  And because I have a lingering holiday sugar jones (that probably will require therapy to break,) I ordered one of those little vanilla scones thinly covered with a breakaway sugar glaze. 

Everything was great.  Except for the coffee.

After adding a splash of cream to my cup, I took a sip, expecting that signature Starbucks deep, robust, almost bracing liquid.  Instead, I was greeted with a bitter, flat, lukewarm cup of Joe.  So awful, I considered returning it for a fresh cup, but the length of the line made me reconsider.  Yep, I kept the coffee but with every sip, I wished I’d simply wash my breakfast down with a bottle of water.

We all know Starbucks has expanded into a major emporium filled with food, gifts, and music. But you might think it's a stretch if I said the Starbuck’s growth strategy has made them lose sight of their core coffee business; especially if I’m basing it on one bad cup of coffee. 

But what I would say is Starbucks is vastly different from just five years ago and possibly that difference has shifted their focus from producing a genuinely great cup of coffee to growing a brand.     

What I know for sure is my recent Starbucks experience is just a reminder that regardless of our growth it's dangerous to lose sight of our core business. 

Because many of your loyal customers are just like me.  We’re still coming for the coffee.

    

Change

Most of us have made the decision to lose a couple of pounds.  Especially at the beginning of a new year, we could benefit from dropping a few.    

And so we diet.  And then a friend calls for a happy hour filled with fun, fried foods and a few drinks and that notion of restricting our diet takes a backseat to the moment. 

No big deal, we say, “I’ll start again tomorrow.”  “Or on second thought, we’re at the weekend; I’ll start fresh on Monday morning.” 

What is this whole notion of “starting over?”

Of course, dieting is just the example I’m using here.  It could be exercise.  Could be consistently sharing content online or making daily entries in QuickBooks.  Could be reading to your kids.  Sales calls.  Could be anything.  We’re constantly, “starting over.”

In my experience, this “starting over” talk usually ends with another "starting over."  

The moment you notice you’re off your game, there’s really no need to dramatically, “start over.” 

Instead of stopping to start again, try this. 

As soon as you’re aware of your actions, make an adjustment.  Give yourself the opportunity in the moment to change your mind which changes your behavior. 

The power is to simply make an adjustment. 

Selling Mad Men

Back in the day when Netflix was all about the DVD delivered in the red envelope, I watched my first episode of the period drama, Mad Men. 

And like much of the rest of the country I was immediately hooked.  I can remember putting all the released seasons on my Netflix queue; hungrily devouring each episode as it came in, and then promptly sending the DVD’s back so Netflix would release my next fix – I mean DVD.

During those days I was maaaaaddddd for Mad Men. 

So of course when I finished what Netflix had to offer I started looking for current TV times to catch the new episodes. 

I waited and waited. 

In the beginning that was part of the mystic that is Mad Men.  The whispering among devotees regarding when the opening season would begin.  How long would they make us wait? 

And when it seemed we simply could not endure another second without the series, we'd get our opening episode.

It was like being with a lover after an absence- I moved heaven and earth to catch the program and gave it my full attention. 

But, sadly like a relationship gone bad I started to distrust Mad Men.  

We'd hear the season was going to start and then they'd tell us the season was not starting.  And then we'd get the start but the episodes were disappointing.  

Because of the long breaks in programming it seemed at times the writers were following obscure plot details that had long been forgotten.  Or at least I'd forgotten them. 

I often wondered, do  the writers have “The Curse of Knowledge” or are they arrogant enough to think they can hold an audience in abeyance for months with nothing better to do than remember what coast which characters are on. 

So for me my Mad Men love affair has ended and ended somewhat badly.  I’ll show up Sunday nights for the next two episodes unless I have something better to do.   I know we're supposed to have the final set of episodes in 2015, and maybe they'll be fantastic.  But I don't know – right now I don't trust them.     

Are you selling what I'm buying?

For me Mad Men lost sight of what I was buying.  Not only did they take away some of the visual style and plot development, they arrogantly pointed out their advantage by bringing the series to me on their erratic schedule. 

I'm aware this post is a one-woman Mad Men rant.    

But if you think to your own business the question is:

Are you selling what your customers still want to buy?

Or have you unconsciously taken away the very items or services that constitute customer contentment?  Have you flipped flopped around on the business model to the point of losing customer loyalty?

It’s just something to think about.

The Exception to the Rule

This morning over toast and coffee I watched a one minute video starring Mitch Joel.  Mitch (who I didn't know until I watched this video) is, I guess, a pretty big deal in some circles.  Among other things, he’s President of Twist Image; a digital marketing company. 

What he said was rather compelling. 

In a little over sixty seconds he discussed the general nature of business, revenue and its relationship to economic climate and the music industry, leaving the listener with one singular thought. 

For every rule there are mostly exceptions.  

I’m going to borrow that thought for both my business and my personal life. 

I think it would work well as a small but powerful weapon to conquer any fear.  Especially those sticky situations where you want to make a radical change (from employee to entrepreneur for instance) and your mind attaches that radical change to something that can’t be changed (your age, gender, ethnicity as examples.)

We all know that combination; radical change + something that can't be changed = fear paralyzes.    

And the funny thing of course is we created the “rule” – the  I’m too old/young/black/white/inexperienced/female/male. 

So it’s probably safe to say YOU are the exception to the rule. 

Restoration

A week ago on MLK Day my good friend Marta and I caught up with each other over lunch.    

During our conversation I shared something with her that had been plaguing me for a while and seemed to be getting worse.       

At first I was a bit awkward; it was just so personal.  But over the last of the chips and queso I found the courage to share my vulnerability.  

I’m usually a centered, energetic , happy person.  I know where I'm going.  I'm always looking forward to the journey and full of passion as I make or mark the path that gets me to my destination. 

But for about the last year I'd not been feeling myself.   I was a little off and couldn't seem to talk my way, feel my way or get out of my way.  And as much as I hate to admit it, I was starting to feel a bit reclusive and protective while flapping around in self-doubt and anxiety.      

It seems simple now, post Marta conversation.  But it was our chat that helped me define this jumble of feelings as a simple but powerful lapse in confidence.   

With Marta’s help I stopped sloshing around in my emotional murky waters and figured out with certainty what had precipitated my funk.           

I’d had a very successful six-year business contract that had ended badly several years ago.  And now I was making a mistake so many of us make. 

Instead of remembering the good and the bad of that situation, I was unconsciously concentrating on the last painful moments of that contract.  In the story I was living, I was not focused on the fullness of the experience and my love of the work. Instead I focused on the disappointing end.     

Once I was conscious of what I was doing, I felt the most wonderful emotional release.  Because once a negative thought or action has been defined, it immediately, in that moment, starts to lose its power.            

I can't tell you how much better I'm feeling; how much stronger and more focus are my actions, how creative and optimistic my mood!  

     

I guess the moral of this post is: find your “Marta.”  

Find the person you can confide in.  Especially on this entrepreneurial journey which is so often a lonely journey; find the person that is compassionate and empathetic. 

But also the one that will listen to your story, ask the right questions that facilitates understanding and then gently challenges you to get back in the game, back on your purpose. 

So there you have - my detour and the journey back to me. 

       

Success: One Month at a Time

I'm sharing an article that originally appeared in The Huffington Post as a blog post because it focuses on a really simple idea that could potentially have a huge impact in your 2014.    

I’m running the full article but pay special attention to point #1. 

You may recall my last post was on resolutions and why they don't work for most of us.  

This article reinforces my point of changing your year-long resolution list into SMART goals that expire in 30 days.  I'm excited because for me it's making all the difference. 

UPDATE:  I started my New Year goal-setting in December, 2013; I know - always the overachiever.  Anyway, that goal was not only met but exceeded my projected outcome.   We’re 13 days into the new year so that means I’m 13 days into my new challenge.  This one is a business challenge; finish the marketing plan for my new product launch.  We're almost half way thru the month and I'm on target to finish the plan with time to spare.    

Okay, so here’s the article.  Hope it helps.

New Year's Resolution 2.0: How to Make It Work for You and Your Friends

Posted: 01/02/2014 3:19 pm

For the first time in my life, I actually stuck to my New Year's resolution for 2013. My friends did too and we're already discussing what we're going to focus on for 2014. What sparked the change?

1. We commit to 12 one-month resolutions. Instead of trying to maintain one lofty goal for 365 days, we allow ourselves the opportunity to switch it up every month (in January, I committed to being a vegan; in February, I committed to reading four books).

Interestingly, some of these monthly resolutions end up becoming habits because we are so intently focused on doing just that one thing for a month. Twenty-one days to make a habit? Maybe. Thirty days? More likely.

2. We make it social. Our resolution-of-the-month club started last January among three friends. Now, we have 15 members, not all of whom know each other. It doesn't matter who joins or when someone joins (our most recent addition joined in November). We only have one requirement: You email the group on the first of every month with an update on last month's resolution and your commitment for this month.

3. We track our progress. We keep track of our resolutions and progress to date in Google Docs. Seeing everything that we accomplish, both individually and collectively, month after month is incredibly motivating. The fear of having to write the email, "Last month didn't go so well," to the group is also just as motivating.

And the result? Aside from the fact that I have proof of what I accomplished this past year, I actually feel like I am a more interesting person to talk to, whether at dinner with friends or at the water cooler with coworkers. People now know I am working on some area of my life at any given point in the year, and so the question of "How's this month's resolution coming along?" has replaced the trite "How are you?"

Above all, I am inspired by and amazed at all of our resolutions. We have become each other's biggest cheerleaders, particularly when our resolutions have evolved from "no alcohol" to "finalize creating a website and send the link to the group when it's done." Our tracker shows a progression of us getting bolder and more creative with our resolutions over time. Not only have we delved into the standard resolutions (exercising more, eating healthily or getting our finances together), we have also managed to audition for TEDx, write a business plan, learn new dance choreography or start guitar lessons, just to name a few. We are more vulnerable and courageous, and we are taking more risks with each other's support.

Ultimately, it doesn't matter what the resolutions are; what is more telling is our reflection on how our previous month's commitment went and why. The toughest lesson I learned about myself came with my June resolution, when I resolved to unplug from all technology (no Internet, no TV, no phone and no email) for every Saturday in June. Though I successfully unplugged for all Saturdays except one, I resolved to make up that one day in July, in addition to a new resolution. When the unplugged day didn't happen in July, I rolled it over to August. When it didn't happen in August, I rolled it over to September. Embarrassingly, I wasn't able to unplug fully until one day in November (read: on Thanksgiving). That lingering incomplete resolution was a wake-up call for me. Luckily, because this group had seen my struggles in finding a day to unplug, no explanation was necessary when I sought their advice.

And my favorite resolution? Hands down it was my November one, when I decided to mail handwritten cards expressing my gratitude to 30 individuals, one for each day of the month. The response from the recipients was overwhelming, from a friend's handwritten response (who doesn't love receiving snail mail?) to multiple phone calls expressing how receiving such a gesture moved them to tears. My mentor emailed me recently to say that it inspired her to do something similar in 2014. Certainly, resolutions can become even more powerful when we commit to doing something for someone else, not just for improving our own self.

Not surprisingly, our conversations as of late are focused on what we're each thinking of focusing on in January. We're continuing in 2014 what we started in 2013.

For 2014, I encourage you to rethink your New Year's resolution. Shift the year-long mindset and ask yourself: What do I really want to accomplish this month? Put it in an email and tell your friends. Start your own resolution-of-the-month club for 2014. You won't regret it.

Miho Kubagawa is a Birmingham, AL native working in the ed sector in NYC. Her resolution for this month is to read The Creative Habit and to complete the 32 exercises listed in the book. You can follow her at @MSKubs.

       

The Secret to Turning Your Resolutions into Reality

My 2013 approach to resolutions was fairly elaborate.

Instead of spending the holidays in Austin, I’d traveled to Michigan preparing to stay in my home state for the entire month of Dec.into the first week of Jan.  

It was probably because I had read every book I’d brought along.  And certainly after a month of celebratory eating and drinking I had finally found my capacity and had lost interest in exceeding it.

So to fill up my New Year’s Day I devised a game creating 2013 resolutions and invited those in the room to play with me.   

I made up the rules to the game as we went along.  Everyone had a notepad and pen.  And I gave an extemporaneous speech to my little audience about setting intention for the New Year. 

After preparing our individual lists we went around the table and shared our 2013 desires.  We made a pact we’d check in via Skype at the end of every quarter just to make certain we were not losing our way. 

By second quarter 2013 I had indeed lost my way, along with my list. If someone had asked me to recite those resolutions that were so important just a few months ago I would have been hard-pressed to recall even half the list.

Fast forward to December 2013

A friend on my Facebook feed mentioned a 30-day fitness challenge.  She was in the last few days of her challenge and boasted she was now able to hold a plank for almost 4 minutes. 

Well I thought this was fairly impressive and decided to do my own 30-day challenge, starting the first day of December.  It’s not so important to this post what I decided to focus on but the effectiveness of the focus.   

And I’m proud to report within the 30 days (well technically it’s been 23 days) I've never strayed from the goal, never lost sight of the desired outcome and every day I happily perform rituals to reinforce the new behavior. 

I actually can’t believe how well it’s worked. Not only did I get what I wanted, it came with a bonus.  I am decidedly happier and lighter of spirit.  I've gifted myself with a new way of being.          

Summary

So what’s the difference (at least for me) between New Year’s resolutions (that don't work) and time-sensitive challenges (that do?) On the surface they sort of seem the same; at least they’re made up of similar components. 

However I think the way I do resolution lists sets the path for failure.  The list is too long, too nebulous, too hazy and too wishful thinking-ish.  It’s not a plan list, it’s a wish list. 

On the other hand my 30-day challenge is clear of purpose, specific, measurable, attainable, realistic and timely. 

OMG it’s a SMART goal! 

The key then to making it happen is to forget the long list and wasted time on New Year’s Day.   Instead target one specific want, need or desire and create a measurable plan around it.  No need to make it elaborate, just clear.  In just a little time your implemented plan will reap a big payoff.    

So my 2014 wish for you and your family (besides good health and happiness!) is the ability to remember that so many of our answers are already within us.  We just have to stay quiet enough to hear them.

Happy 2014!       

    

                

Time Out

Over the weekend Solomon and I had a great time.

I don’t mention my partner Solomon very often in my blog posts which he’s forever grateful.  But I have to just this once because of my business insight.      

On Saturday night we attended his company Christmas party.  I always look forward to these holiday parties because they’re well planned and filled with light energy and laughter. 

This party was extra special primarily because of the venue.  Sitting in the Hill Country, less than an hour’s drive from Austin, the gathering was held at Horseshoe Bay Resort Hotel; a beautiful facility, overlooking Lake LBJ and surrounded by manicured gardens.  His company gifted us with our weekend stay.   

Solomon and I had a great time and extended that great time by traveling on Sunday into the little towns and hamlets in the Texas Hill Country.    

As we strolled the streets, taking pictures of holiday tinsel and twinkling lights and visiting the little shops all adorned for the holidays, an answer to a business question simply popped into my head. I wasn't consciously thinking about business, but there it was, the perfect solution that would move my new business plan forward.   

So bright and early this morning I was back at my computer in the afterglow of my “feel-good” weekend.  It was then it occurred to me that some of my best business solutions have come during these periods of rest and relaxation. 

In truth, the entire business plan I’m currently implementing came while Solomon (there’s that name again!) and I visited another Texas town on a screaming-hot Sunday looking for treasures at a gigantic outdoor collectibles market.   

As entrepreneurs there never seems to be enough hours in the day.  Our to-do list is overflowing.  We’re organizing, prioritizing, and scheduling like crazy.     

I’ve always been so passionate about my work that it doesn’t feel much like work.  So because of that those around me have at times needed to pull me, kicking and screaming, away from my purpose. 

But this morning after my fabulous weekend I remember the power of rest and relaxation.  There is a time when I must turn the computer off. 

In those times what seems to turn on is a renewal of my creativity, imagination and inventiveness.          

  

Seth Godin

Who am I to go up against a heavy-hitter like Seth Godin?? 

I’m the girl who just starting blogging about a year ago.  I try and write a post about once a week, but most of the time it’s about every two weeks.  

But then who’s counting. . . I'm certain my readership doesn’t keep Seth up at night. 

Don’t get me wrong Seth Godin is a marketing god.  His content is fabulous, his books are classics, he’s a great public speaker and he’s held in high regard by just about everyone; including me.     

However Seth keeps the bar set high for all of us.   So high in fact that coming close to the bar is damn near impossible, while actually clearing the bar and feeling any sense of victory is something I’ll probably never see in this lifetime, according to Seth. 

Let’s just look at a couple of lines from a few of his blog postings:

·         “Just about all commercial behavior is banal. Even in movies that deal with business people, the characters don't dream nearly big enough about one's ability to change the culture or the enterprise.”

·         “Remarkable doesn't mean remarkable to you. It means remarkable to me. Am I going to make a remark about it? If not, then you're average, and average is for losers.”

·         The world is changing faster than ever and people aren’t adapting fast enough.”

I made this post all about Seth but he’s not alone in this, "yesterday-is-dead, content-is-king, good-is-not-good-enough world."  Everyone seems to have their own version of mastery.  And “master” we must.  Anything short of that is a half-effort that results in little or no reward, recognition or sense of accomplishment.    

In my humble entrepreneurial opinion, I say, give me a break.  Most entrepreneurs I know are some of the hardest working people on the planet.   I truly believe in giving your best plus 10% but I ask;  is it alright if I feel some sort of victory before the goalpost is moved. . .again?        

Vince Lombardi said (and I realize he died in the 70’s – which may as well be a million years ago)

“The price of success is hard work, dedication to the job at hand, and the determination that whatever we win or lose, we have applied the best of ourselves to the task at hand.”

Is it just me or is that way of thinking pretty much dead? 

Master Your Emotions

Please excuse my absence.  I've been spending time in confusion. 

I’m in the process of making major, sweeping changes to my core business. 

The type of all-encompassing changes that herald in a totally new business model.  It’s a business model that still supports microbusiness but bears little resemblance to my daily activity of talking with entrepreneurs and writing business plans.    

During this upheaval my mind is like a 3-ring circus.  With a full performance happening in every corner and crevice, my brain is at maximum capacity. Not to mention, my monkey mind is also living up to its name, with constant prodding, poking and an incessant restlessness.    

But I’ve been an entrepreneur for years and while this unsettled time is surely not fun, it’s not entirely unfamiliar.  As they say in Texas, this ain’t my first rodeo. 

If I can settle the beast within and remember the purpose of my activity; to grow an impressively profitable business while solving a problem for my target market, I will get through this transition and flourish. 

And I will because I have an arsenal of secret weapons. 

My cache of crutches is a recipe really that consists of equal parts spiritual, transformational and motivational material gleaned from some of the best teachers over the past twenty years.   

Sometimes it takes me awhile to remember I possess the tools that crush my confusion and allow me to go about the business of building a business.  But like riding a bike or swimming a lap, my mental muscle memory guarantees my training to  kick in and make my crooked places straight again. 

I guess it’s possible for people to build successful businesses without having these cycles of fear and overwhelm followed by confidence and vitality but for certain that’s not me.  For me it’s about using rituals that limit fear-based down cycles and encourage an environment where ideas flourish.     

There’s tons of ways to change your emotional state and allows you to take back your creation energy.   You can always start with a Tony Robbins type thing.  Or pick the person, activity or thing that works best for you. 

Sometimes it’s really simple.  As simple as watching a YouTube video.     

See if this doesn’t help:    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QUF36chCPuA

AVON

My sister Cookie has decided to become an AVON representative. 

She’s an interesting character.  Highly educated (with an advanced degree in Public Administration,) compassionate (she is my 93 year-old mother’s principal caregiver) and one of the smartest people I know.    

She also has an almost religious relationship to multi-level marketing.  For those uninitiated folks out there, MLM or multi-level-marketing is simply a profit model where those involved can make money at several levels.  You are compensated when you privately make a sale, but also when others you're associated with make a sale.    

Her relationship with this model spans decades.   

She’s been involved in selling insurance policies and pots and pans.  Then of course there was the communications company that came on the heels of the cosmetic company.

I've had so many conversations with her around network marketing (which is another name for MLM) that I can hold my own when she starts discussing commissions, and bonuses, chargebacks and personal volume discounts.  I will admit however, that when we take the deep dive into the murky waters of up-lines and down lines I get a little breathless and feel the need to come up for air.

And even though she’s not found the financial success she thought was hers, she has stayed enamored with the business model.  And it seems with each company she pockets another piece of the puzzle and better understand what the success formula looks like.   

Which leads us to AVON. 

For certain, if I was a betting woman, I put my money on this newest relationship.  Not so much because it’ s AVON, one of the oldest most respected brands in the world, but because of how she is using her experience to create a different outcome. 

From the very beginning she picked AVON after first looking at several MLM companies and interviewing their representatives.  She didn't simply plunk down her payment and pick-up her samples.  Instead she developed a set of interview questions to be answered by what would be her up-line. She was looking and listening for compatibility, company longevity, business acumen, creativity and most importantly a financially successful track record with the company.   

After making her decision she made a commitment for success.  She’s now in the process of putting systems in place (including financial systems,) projecting her growth, working under marketing objectives and strategically growing her business. 

I'm impressed.  She’s excited and I'm excited for her.           

         

Cookie reminds me that it’s never too late to try again.  

And it’s never too late to get it right.  

Developing New Products: The Critical First Step

A good first step in developing new products or services for your business is to ask your customers what they like about the old product or service. 

This seems so logical.  But many times we skip this step.  Instead of having the conversation with the customer we decide to play both parts by having the conversation with ourselves.   

This one person play is very dangerous.  And can be very costly.

Because in truth we're not as in-tune with our customer as we think we are.  We’re really not sure why they buy our handmade jewelry, our vegan cinnamon buns or our massage services.  Oftentimes we’re not even certain who we're attracting.  We think we know but do we really? 

Ask yourself a simple question.  Are most of your clients or customers, men or women? 

Most business owners would answer this question quickly, without hesitation. 

But the speed of our reply doesn't mean we're right.  Unless you're a gynecologist or the director of a sperm bank your reply is probably as reliable as that of an eyewitness.  

I suggest if your business or consultancy is small enough simply take a minute and actually segregate your clients by sex.  Or if necessary, pull a report from your database, or stand in your shop over the course of week and count men and women stopping in.   

Were you surprised by the outcome?

My advice is before you make any substantive change to your offering do your best to find out who’s buying what and why.  This is particularly important when you're creating new product or service strategies that change your core offerings. 

And the best way to find out is the old fashioned way. 

Ask

 

                 

HONESTY

Say you're at a small dinner party.  You introduce yourself to your dinner companion.   She tells you she’s a doctor. 

As you chat each other up you're developing an overpowering urge to ask a personal medical question.  Before the chocolate tart is served you’re describing the itchy rash on your left arm, or if the humming in your right ear deserves medical attention.     

I’m no doctor but that scenario pretty much describes my life as a lifelong entrepreneur and micro business consultant. By the time I've graciously accepted the extra scoop of vanilla bean ice cream on my tart my dinner companion is talking about small business issues or an entrepreneurial idea. 

Not a problem; it’s a conversation I love having.  But because I have it so often I’ve for certain noticed patterns.

For instance; one is about money.  Usually it’s money versus social mission or social consciousness. 

Take last weekend. 

While listening to voicemail I hear the sweet voice of one of my really good girlfriends.  Apparently she’s had some fabulous “light bulb” of an idea and she’s simply bursting to share it with me. 

I can tell by her energy she’s not wanting “friend Penny” to return this call.  Instead, she’s dying to talk to Penny; the small business consultant.   

I return her call. She shares her idea.  As it’s explained the idea sounds totally mission-driven.  Basically it’s an idea that works to bring solution to difficulties and hardships within a population. 

So I start discussing for-profit versus nonprofit organizations.  I’m having conversation around using surplus revenue to achieve social goals rather than focusing on distributing profitability.                

I’m knee-deep in that conversation when I hear verbal bits and pieces coming from her that start sounding much more like dollar desire rather than the initial conversation focused on a people-helping-people program.

I have this conversation a lot. 

And I hate to admit it but it’s usually from women. 

For some reason we're still hesitant to admit we're as profit-driven as the next person.  And even when we are interested in assisting those in need, we want compensation for our effort. 

And the sad reality is that until we're able to own it (our money love,) we won’t be able to create it.     

Want to know the easiest way to resolve the profit/nonprofit problem and move forward on your business planning?   

Ask yourself a simple set of questions. 

If you received no financial compensation would you still do the work? 

Which comes first on a priority list; COMPENSATION or CAUSE? 

Let’s say there’s a nonprofit that already exists in your area of interest.  Could you simply volunteer your time?  Or would you still need your startup?     

If you never made a penny from your effort, would the idea still be exciting for you?    

   

Why Business Plans Don't Work

The easiest way to make a business plan work is by working a business plan. 

That sounds simple. 

Until we remember that the fastest way to guarantee a diet will work is by working the diet.  The easiest way to write a book is to write a book.  And the easiest way to get in physical shape is by getting in physical shape.

All this makes us remember we don't do that execution part so well.

It seems that when the excitement around growing a business (or losing weight, or writing a book) starts to wane, discipline needs to kick in.

And that’s usually the kicker.   

I've been in the business of writing business plans for a couple of years now.  About 6 to 8 months ago I noticed a disturbing trend. 

My clients would be excited as I handed over the tightly-bound body of work, along with the thumb drive, containing their strategy for growth and profitability.  They were impressed with the sheer size of the finished document and realized that all of our meetings matched to all of my research and creativity had coalesced into this personal, particular strategy. 

But my guess is that as they read the plan they realized that I’d not handed them magic.  Success was not going to manifest by clicking their heels three times.    

On the contrary, with plan in place it was now time to roll up their sleeves and start the real work of growing a business.

And it’s at this point they meet with frustration.

Because the hardest part of any journey is the first step.  

I personally think it is part self-discipline and part prioritizing that fuels the inertia. Also many of the business plans I write are for clients that have busy businesses already and are looking to expand that  business – time may be an issue as well.      

So I came up with an idea.  I now add a separate document to every business plan I write and deliver to my clients.  I call it an Implementation Timeline.   

This implementation tool is the step-by-step blueprint that executes the plan and turns those financial projections into real cash. 

It’s very much like giving your day structure by creating a prioritized “to-do” list; an implementation tool will give you daily direction. 

Not sure how to create your implementation tool?

Try starting with your marketing objectives.  Your marketing objectives represent your success path. So when the objectives are satisfied through a step-by-step plan it’s reasonable to assume you have manifested your projected revenue. 

Ask yourself a series of questions to start creating the tool.  What do I need to do (every single step.)  When do I need to do it?  Who needs to help me? What resources do I need?  Etcetera 

Creating an implementation tool is arduous work.  But if you take the time to create the tool and the discipline to work the tool you're rewarded with success.

And, after all, wasn't success the whole point of writing the business plan?        

Run Your Own Mile

What does “one-off” mean?? 

My friend Tony was sitting in the Dallas airport and read a couple of articles on women and entrepreneurship.  Which made him think of his favorite entrepreneur; me!  So he sent the links. 

I just opened them.  One is on the top 25 women of Twitter – all looking very white and very professional. 

The other link was an article called Startup Diaries.  It was about an entrepreneurial woman who'd just won IBM’s Smartcamp in Dublin.  The article tells us that winning will help seed fund her company.  

So I'm reading this article and Vicky (owner of the winning company) states that because of her goals (“to build a high growth, global business”) she needs support that is beyond “one-off” technology boot camps.     

I stop reading and Google, “one-off.”  Turns out it’s chiefly British.  And it means something that is not repeated or reproduced; happening once.  So in regular speak, she needs more than a one time technology instruction to grow her global company.    

Sometimes when I’m simply living my fairly unglamorous day-to-day existence; attempting to grow my business and service my clients I am not motivated by these articles.  Actually they can be a little bit of a downer.  

How can I possibly “win” when I don't even know the vocabulary?  

But then I am reminded of the “rose-colored glasses” phenomenon and that these articles are never the whole story. 

Maybe even more importantly I draw back on what my wise son once said in reference to exercise, “Mom, don’t lose you in what other people are doing.  Run your own mile.  Stay in your own lane.”  

Sage advice.             

Conflict and Cash

Scenario One 

I decided that Pinterest might be a good platform for my consulting business MARGIN.  So I added a board I named, “FOR THE ENTREPRENEUR.”     

On my personal boards my pins consist of things I liked or objects of desire. 

But with the entrepreneurial board I pin consciously because the pin is meant to share useful information.  Curated from corners of the web I attempt to pin material that is inspiring, profit-generating, motivating, problem-solving, strategy building and at the same time, visually entertaining.    

On the other hand I have a friend who is the queen of the “repin.”  Never leaving Pinterest to find board content - if she’s not seeing it on Pinterest already you won't see it on her boards.  Her effort is minimal, but she is quickly gaining momentum and her following is rapidly mounting.     

Scenario Two

I’m involved in a 13-week webinar supported by a nationally known nonprofit association.  Our instructor who owns her own consultancy is excellent as she plows through tons of information and online marketing concepts. 

Last week we spent a good amount of time discussing blog posts.  During that discussion she said something that had my full attention.    

She said we all get stymied occasionally when it comes to post topics.  Her suggestion was to find a relevant online article.  Copy and paste it as your blog entry while giving full credit to the original source. 

Next edit the article by giving it a new title and subtitles that enhance or optimize your website.  Add your name, address and phone number (nap) at the end of the post.  Blog post finished.  Done in less time than it takes to let your fingers find the home keys and create that snazzy new optimized title.   

Confusion/Conclusion

I’ll admit to being just a little confused and disillusioned.  I’m looking for balance. . .and I'm not sure I'm finding it.   

Surely there’s value in the repin; you're sharing information with a new group of friends who possibly couldn't find the info on their own.  But never to take the journey beyond the site in search of fresh content doesn’t feel right either. 

The same goes for the cut-and-paste blog post.  Certainly there’s room for borrowing and sharing content, but I thought the whole notion of a blog was a platform for original thought. 

I know an artist with a form of Muscular Dystrophy who still pushes through the stiffness in her hands to create her striking black-and-white illustrations.   

With razor-sharp scissors, and an eye focused on perfection, my barber takes an hour trimming my hair making certain I leave with a perfectly sculpted afro.  

I know bakers who talk all day about whether they should use Mexican or Madagascar vanilla in their delicious, from scratch, cupcakes. 

And I know results-driven consultants who work tirelessly to deliver original product that gives clients innovative, solid strategies. 

Are these craftspeople relics?  Is it all about the shortcut; has the scenic route been oversold so much so that it’s lost its value?   

I suppose it drills down to a personal inventory.  How do I want to make a living?  What values and beliefs supervise our behavior and become our guiding light?      

As usual there’s no right and wrong.  And for certain on this one I don’t know the answers.   I'm just asking the questions. 

   

Getting Rich is Easy

I travelled back to Austin late last Wednesday after a week-long trip that combined responsibility with a little relaxation. 

On Thursday I unpacked my suitcase and attempted to readjust to the screaming, oppressive moist heat of July in Austin.  In the late afternoon I was so totally wiped out I fell asleep in my desk chair almost slamming my head into the computer.  Decided it was time for full surrender so I took a two-hour sofa nap. 

By Friday I'd beaten the heat and the fatigue and was back to my early morning exercise routine.

But something else was going on and I could feel it gnawing around my emotional edges.  A dull flat feeling was starting as an internal whisper.   I know from experience if left to idle these random downer feelings will quickly develop into a full-fledged existential crisis and a real confidence killer.   

It was time to change the state of my inner entrepreneur.    

In my younger years I used to coddle these negative feelings by feeding them big doses of “victim talk” and washing it all down with cups of extra-hot Earl Grey tea.  Now I take charge by becoming my own “tough love” coach. 

Here’s my prescription for squashing the funk and getting back to feeling fine.  And the good news is it takes just a little time to make a world of emotional difference.

1.  Shift your focus by listening to your favorite motivational speaker.  Even though I love people like Tony Robbins, Zig Ziglar, the late Jim Rohn and the phenomenal Les Brown – the “who” really doesn't make a difference as long as they inspire you[1].       

2.  For times like these have at your disposal a stimulating, encouraging prayer, meditation, verse, or poem that you read aloud as many times as you need to.  You'll start feeling the feeling.

3.  Movement and posture seem to be important to the process.  Sit up straight.  Stand up tall.  Go for a short walk/run/bike/swim. 

But there’s a key to changing your emotional state. . .YOU'VE GOT TO DO IT!  

The motivational speaker Jim Rohn does this funny thing when referring to getting things done, making money, or living the life you desire. 

He’s says it’s easy to do it.  But it’s also easy not to do it.  The things that are easy to do are also easy not to do. 

I mention this because it’s easy to change your state.  It’s also easy not to change your state.  It’s easy to feel vibrant, full of expectation, excited about spotting possibilities and seizing opportunities. 

On the other hand it’s also easy to feel victimized, disappointed and confused.  And it’s even easier to stay in that energy while you attempt to “figure out the problem.”     

Vibrant and alive versus confused and depressed.

You decide which “easy” you want to live. 

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[1] Have to give a shout out to Tony however – he talks a lot about changing your emotional state.